Interview guide
Impulsive rules
The 10 rules
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Respect your child's desires
- Examples
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- Lock in the bathroom;
- No longer run naked through the apartment;
- No good night kiss
- Statement
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- Through the construction site in the brain and its development processes, your child feels insecure in one's own body.
- Views from the outside are not welcome!
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Respect the privacy of your child
- Beispiel
- Even the mobile phone control by secret Hinterherspionieren is taboo!
- Statement
- This approach creates mistrust.
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Respect when you lose authority.
- Beispiel
- "Pia is more important to me than you!"
- Statement
- Unbending is important. The Peergroup is an increasingly important part of the world of life.
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Stay authentic
- Beispiel
- "Back then, I have also read the "Bravo". I was curious as the others had experienced the first time."
- Statement
- It is good for your child if it feels that it is not always easy for you to address embarrassed issues.
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Attach a protective filter to the smartphone and all mobile devices
- Beispiel
- Typing children, e.g. The harmless word "disgust" in search engines, so pornographic content is shown.
- Statement
- Internetpornography goes to the children's room. A possible complementary protection is a filter software.
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In case of being in conflict with each other, give a signal of willingness to talk.
- Beispiel
- "I do not want you to watch porn."
- Statement
- This sentence is not to be regarded as an announcement, but rather as a sign, by which you do not signal any shyness and demand the dispute. This is the beginning of a long dialogue.
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Stay faithful to your own border
- Beispiel
- "I do not want you to watch porn."
- Statement
- Too many freedoms will overwhelm your child. Limits give orientation.
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Sie sind Vorbilder, ob sie wollen oder nicht
- Beispiel
- Live proximity and recognition.
- Statement
- When you are in contact with your child, education takes place. Children learn at the model.
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Do not use your life maturity for knowing better
- Beispiel
- "Back then, I was also curious. But there were no porn movies. "
- Statement
- Clarity needs goodness and no morals!
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Take your child seriously!
- Beispiel
- "What could do you good now?"
- Statement
- Dissatisfaction, pressure and anxiety need your attention.